I love the power towards the suitable sub, love to take, submission, humiliation and surrender.
Psychic play suits me more than long rituals with the cane. I do not enjoy power by overdoing it, but prefer subtlety; even in everyday life: a whisper, a gesture.
I am tender and nasty, nice and rough, demanding. SM doesn't need many words, it should be spontaneous, why make it more complicated than it needs to be?
I am not interested in the "quick number". For me, SM is more than the short-term satisfaction of a spontaneously flaring desire. I am not in a hurry. I like the pleasurable amble along winding paths, the awakening and stirring up of deeper desire, seduction, understanding. Mutual appreciation in all consistency is the basis for this, as is the perception of the complete personality, not just reduced to the inclination.